How many of us can say that they’ve had a week of pure enjoyment, one without stress, or strain? Even just the simplest of stresses that we somehow seem incapable of getting past on the day to day, yet can become all encompassing as the minutes turn into hours, and the hours turn into days.
Some of us deal with stuff on a day to day basis that others would find overwhelming. Similarly we may find what others deal with as incomprehensible. It’s down to the individual journey. Nobody knows your journey, and likewise you don’t know others. But when we do our best we do our best for others. We look out for one another. We care.
We care!
It doesn’t matter if you think someone is doing well and things are seemingly ok, it can mean the world to someone just to check that they’re really ok.
Never underestimate the power of someone knowing you care. And on the flip side, no matter how dark your day, knowing that someone, somewhere, cares - well that makes the difference between the darkest of days and any other day.
We can all fall into the trap of ‘life getting in the way’, but the reality is that it will, and always will if we don’t be mindful of ourselves, and others we care about.
All too often it can be too easy to get caught up in the mediocrity of tedium. This in itself can feel like sinking on an individual basis. I am sure we’ve all felt it, but it’s recognising that feeling and giving ourselves the kick up the ass to make sure we don’t fall into that rut.
So, with that in mind, look out for those triggers that you see in yourself, or in others. Count them as lessons to be learnt to achieve happiness. It could be yours, it could be someone else’s. But it is happiness, and that should never be ignored.
The thing is life will keep throwing you lessons until you actually learn it.
I care, you matter…
Happy Damn Friday! x
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